Poverty and Being Desperate has forced many young gal into abusive Relationships and Dating Older Men
With the hard economy times and the after effects of Covid19 many young gals have been reckless with their lives and be forced into Dating Older Men thinking it could be a blessing, Many young gals look at falling in Relationship as their only way of survival.
Those who seek love choose older men for purposes of financial muscle than their age mates contemplating that older men can support them financially compared to their age mates who are broke and do not have enough money to take care of their needs.
Do All Older Men Have Money Or It's A Myth??
Well it is a two way thing as there are older men who are well off and others who are not so it could be by luck getting one who is well off in terms of finances.
Though there are qualities to look at like the sense of responsibility as some older men are irresponsible, they run away from their families to find love elsewhere in one way or the other,
They don't respect their partners whatsoever and many know that the gals are in for them cause of money so they hold them on ransom that when you don't do this, I won't give you money either for food or housing, and since they young gals have no alternative then they agree to torture and abuse.
Read Related post
Could It Be Right To Have Kids With An Old Man?
When you read at 20 Realities of Having a Baby with Old men you get the answers to the problem
But let us stick to the Topic of discussion.
Many young gals go as far as bearing kids for older men thinking that the only way they can have the relationship last and have these older men take care of them, yet in reality the men ain't commited to raising the kid together since they always have a family somewhere and this relationship is just for a little fun and maybe going back to their family.
They always have a feeling of retiring or going back to their home country and living the kid behind, So the young lady is bound to be a single mother in the making that any time the man vanishes everything is on her hands to take care of, which includes
- clothing the child
- paying school fees
- paying housing rent
So in my conclusion love shouldn't be materialistic as mnay young gals are falling prey and victims.
Just date someone because you love them and don't make it conditional.
Comments
Post a Comment
Thank you for supporting us